July 1, 2013
Le Jardin des Plumes doesn't
serve lunch on Monday and Tuesday or dinner on Monday. Which means right now is
the weekend for the kitchen staff. There are some servers who work in the
morning to serve breakfast, but Alison has the same weekend as me. I'm really
excited about having met her and the fact that she lives here - she's
definitely the person I've become closest with and spent the most time with. I
think I found my first friend here!
This morning I walked around
and looked at little shops. The little artisan postcard shop I saw yesterday
and thought Eugenah would like turns out to be a shop of little miniature boxes
of scenes that the man creates - he handcrafts tiny little 3-D rooms and
houses. The postcards weren't actually postcards; they were photos of the mini
boxes he makes. There's something I really like about them. There's a little
hat shop that's so 'French shop - esque'. There's a shop with all kinds of
different really nice and cute things like scarves, bath salts, a paper weight,
pressed flower journals, lots of scented oils (that I think I might buy some of
to scent my shea butters with), and much more. There's a store that sells
seeds, regularly and in postcard form. Those are cool. After strolling around
for awhile I went to the tourism office and discovered they have wifi!!!!! I
only had my phone on me, but I responded to some emails and tried to viber some
messages (though I don't think they worked). Anyway, I discovered somewhere I
can go until our internet works! (For some reason you can now select the
network and it accepts the password, saying you're connected, but then it
doesn't actually work/you can't access the web.
I went to a little
restaurant for lunch called Les Nympheas. I wasn't all that hungry (even though
I hadn't eaten yet) so I asked for a light meal recommendation, and he
suggested a salad. But then I saw a duck dish and couldn't resist. So I ordered
that, and it came with a carrot souffle thing, broccoli, and potatoes. The duck
was in like 7 slices with a lot of sauce over it. Everything was so. damn.
good. I heard and was under the impression that all the restaurants here are
really good. Well this one certainly didn't fail expectations!!! It really was
delicious. Oh boy. My meal and my coffee were 20 euros. Not bad. It was a lot
of food too. I was full!
I returned to the house and
after a nap I went grocery shopping at a supermarket with Alison. It turned out
Francesco didn't come because he was going to get something for his music sound
system, so we didn't go to the specialized stores like the charcuterie and
fromagerie like he usually insists on. Which was sad, but another time I'll go!
(It's not like I haven't seen them before - I've gone to plenty in Paris and
what not - I just like them a lot.) Also I really wanted to go to a
chocolatier, but the shopping centers we went to didn't have any. Sad. Again,
another day. I have two months here after all!
Anyway, the shopping
adventure was actually really exciting more me. Like much more so than grocery
shopping always is, and even more so than it usually is when I go in another
country - because this is the first time I've grocery shopped as a real person.
As in I wasn't buying things for all of my family, or thinking about one meal,
or buying things with the idea that other people in the family can use it too -
I had to think about all my meals I'm going to need, figure out what to buy for
dinner tonight, lunch tomorrow, and all my breakfasts. And I guess that doesn't
sound like much - but like I said, it's the first time I've done so. And it was
cool. Here's what I ended up getting: a huge block of butter, a bottle of
organic olive oil (I accidentally got one with rosemary and olive oil, but
that's certainly not a disaster), some cheese (I forget what kind - Alison
recommended Compte, but it's only in season in winter, so the woman gave me a
similar one), jambon, pâté, quail eggs (18 for 2.80 euros - not too bad I
think!), 6 regular eggs, a big zucchini, some baby bella mushrooms, and a .33
kg thing of steak/beef. Then I also got shampoo, conditioner, and soap. Alison
really is so nice. She helped me pick them out because I couldn't understand
the types so she helped me find nice smelling ones that make your hair not
puffy (they're cocoa scented, but in a very pleasant for a hair smell way).
Then we had to get her key
replicated for me. I'd been using one of Nadia's, so now I have a new one. It
took 5-10 minutes to replicate and cost 27 euros (not that I paid). Doesn't it
take like a day and cost like $100 back at home? I thought it was something
crazy like that...
While we waited for the key
we went the stores next door to go clothes shopping. It was fun. I'm so bad at
clothes shopping though. I can never decide if I like things. I didn't get
anything. but neither did she. Later on in the day she had put on an adorable,
really, really good-looking on her dress, and put on a hat and asked me if it
looked good. It really did!! It was so cute. (She's also really gorgeous.) I
said I would kind of like one, but I don't know how to wear one and she
responded with 'you put it on your head'. I put it on and she said it looked
good. I'll look at myself with it later. But no one wears hats in the US.
We drove by a pool and she
said we could go together if I'd like. I said I'd love to.
I found out that she moved
here and started working at Le Jardin des Plumes a week ago. So she's been here
only 7 days! Before that she was still in Brittany where she's from, going to
school (to be a server), and living with her parents. She's only 20 years old!
I guess I just assumed she was older and had been working here for a long time
because she seemed so incorporated. She's been dating Francesco for 1 year, and
he's been working here for 7 months (they've been long distance - a 5 hour
drive away - for that time before she came here. Before that he lives in
Brittany also and went to school with her, I think, to become a sommelier.).
Anyway that's exciting to me because this living alone thing is also really new
for her! And she's new here too, so also not settled in completely I guess.
Which makes it seem more likely that we'll become better friends. I really do
like her a lot. And of course she's helping me learn all kinds of new words and
phrases because when I can't say something or don't understand things she
explains. I was afraid it was going to be annoying that I asked for help all
the time but she said not at all. It really is weird making a friend when we're
only speaking in another language that I'm still so new at, because I don't
know how I come across, and I can't express myself in the same way, so I feel
in a way like I'm a totally different person. I wonder if the person she sees
me as is totally different from the person English speakers see/would see me
as. Well, I guess a lot of my characteristics have to still come across the
same way.
After shopping I ate my last
macaroon and walked back to the tourism office with my computer. I uploaded all
my backed up blog posts, some more pictures onto facebook, and then two girls
sat on the bench next to mine and started talking in English. I had barely
spoken English since yesterday morning before Gloria dropped me off, so it was
kind of nice to be able to communicate normally. They were two sisters, one who
just graduated, one who's still in college, both doing photography - so they're
in France doing some photography stuff. They've wanted to come to Giverny for
the water lilies since they were like 5! We chatted for awhile before they went
to drive back to...Paris or something. I was going to do some French studying -
with Duolingo or something (which requires internet, unfortunately....), but
then the woman (who tends the gardens around the tourism office/little
courtyard of shops and a café) said she had to lock the doors. I was going to
go back home but I thought she said come with me and I didn't really understand
but I thought she was going to show me to another wifi place (I thought she
might live really close or something). But no, I walked with her to her car a
little down the street, talked with her for like 20 minutes, and then when I
wasn't sure what was going on, at some point I'm pretty sure she asked if I
wanted to go to get dinner with her, and she would pay (adding that she's
assuming I'm not paid as an intern). I guess I didn't explain why she was such
a weird old woman, but she was really weird. She asked me where I was living
and I said close by, just down the street, and she was very intent on my
telling her more precisely where, and then she spent several minutes taking out
a big map and showing me where she lives and how she has to drive back there,
and talking about how it's and hour and 45 minutes away. But she was weird. So
I was glad to finally tell her I had bought groceries, I had to make dinner,
and then leave.
Shit, now that I'm thinking
about it I'm kind of scared. She also asked me who else lived at the house,
whether I had a cell phone. She said she takes care of the gardens and is
always working there, so I can come by anytime. I'm pretty sure she was just
weird. She was also like 70. But if she is part of some ploy with other people
to kidnap people and hold them for ransom...well shit.
I just cooked and ate my
dinner. I sliced the zucchini and steamed it, then pan-fried it in olive oil
and garlic. I rubbed the steak with salt, minced garlic, and olive oil, let it
sit, and then pan-fried it in olive oil and butter (at the restaurant
Jean-Baptiste taught me that if you use only butter the butter burns, so you
can use olive oil or both, but not just butter). Then I made three sunny side
up quail eggs and put them on a piece of the jambon. I must say it was a
delicious meal. Also one of the simplest ones I've ever made. I'm not used to making
very simple things - I also spend hours cooking complicated recipes, creating
new dishes, etc. But cooking simple things is something I want to master.
Complex is definitely not always better. Simple things are often more
delicious, if done really well. Anyway, my meal was yum. My steak was really
rare though. I really like rare, and I still thought it was delicious, but I
think I would have prefered it a little more cooked, and I know if doing it for
other people I would want to cook it through more. But I need to learn how to
cook things through best without burning the outside. Anyway, today has been a
very pleasant day, and one that has given me a lot of optimism about my future
here/the prospect of having a friend. Still though, especially since she is
dating Francesco and obviously spends a lot of time with him, as well as just
because I think it's good to have more than one friend, I would like to meet
some other people...but I don't really know how. Unfortunately there's nowhere
to go out in Giverny. There are little no clubs, no grocery stores, etc. So as
cute and beautiful as it is, I'm afraid it doesn't seem particularly effective
in generating new friendships..
Well I think I'm going to
walk around the town a little more. Not sure what exactly to do. Maybe I'll get
an ice cream if somewhere is selling them. There are little ice cream stands
but only during the day I think.
Hi babe,
ReplyDeleteI most certainly am following your blog. It's wonderful that you are writing so frequently and in so much detail. You are having such a rich and wonderful experience, its exhilarating to read about. Sometimes I must confess I feel anxious reading about encounters with weird people. On the one hand, it's wonderful that you are open and this is a good way to experience more things in the world. On the other hand I worry for your safety. But I trust your judgment, your presence of mind and your physical strength (hope things never come to that). But maybe you don't need to drink bad wine with a 70 year old man in a dirty apartment with a dirty dog? Or maybe you do...stay safe, my sweetheart baby. We love you so much.